What if comparison isn’t really about other people—but about trying to become certain about yourself? Almost everyone compares themselves to others. It happens while scrolling through social media, talking with friends, celebrating someone else’s success, or simply noticing someone who appears happier, wealthier, more attractive, or more confident. In a matter of seconds, another...
Comparison isn’t the problem—forgetting what you’re actually looking for is. It’s almost impossible not to compare yourself. Someone your age buys a house. A friend starts a successful business. Someone online seems happier, healthier, wealthier, or more confident than you. Without even realizing it, your mind begins measuring. “They’re further ahead.”...
